Affirmations:
I free myself by freeing you.
I trust you are freeing me too.
Everyone learns to feel safe and whole, as I learn to just let go.
I easily release all expectations, judgments and assumptions. And simply
Love!
Don’t expect
others to know what you know.
Don’t expect others
to believe what you believe.
Don’t expect others
to live the way you live.
Don’t expect others
to do what you would do.
Everyone is
different.
Everyone has a
different beliefs and goals.
Everyone has
different set of values and standards.
Everyone has their
own inner dialogue and sense of themselves.
We really can
make no assumptions about anyone.
Different strokes
for different folks.
Some are formal and
some informal.
Some are assertive
and some are passive.
Some play victim and
some play aggressor.
Some speak out and
some stay quiet.
Some are respectful
and some don’t care.
Some are needy and
some are greedy.
Some feel alone and
some want to be alone.
Some are certain and
some are doubtful.
Some are independent
and some independent.
Some want more and
some want less.
Some know nothing
and some know everything.
Some like to make
their bed each day and some find that a waste of energy.
Some like to sit
down at the table to eat a balanced meal and some graze on whatever is
available.
Some life to do
things quickly and some like to take their time.
Some think about
things and some just want to do it without a lot of thinking.
Some overdo and some
underdo.
Some like and some
hate.
Some stick to
themselves and some relate.
Some change every
day and some stay the same.
Some are demanding
and some laissez faire.
Some lead and some
follow.
And then it all
changes all the time anyway.
There are so many
personality differences, we cannot possibly understand anyone else.
And it may take a
lifetime to know ourselves.
We may study, observe,
do therapy, change our persona and we still are evolving.
Such is the nature
of life
The safer we
feel, the more we reveal.
The more we
reveal, the faster we heal.
The faster we
heal, the happier we are.
The happier and
safer we are, the more we change and unfold and blossom into our fullness.
So let’s give
each other the space to fully be.
Let us choose to
live in harmony with all the difference colors and textures and flavors and
sounds.
Life is a tapestry
of unique expressions of being.
Let us stop judging
and just let everyone be.
In our
willingness to be, we can live in wholeness and harmony.
Loving you and
loving me, we believe in freedom and trust.
We create a safe
zone in ourselves where everyone is free.
What a wonderful
gift of life when we let everyone simply be.
Betty Lue