Affirmations:
I free myself to fully be myself.
I let go and let all Good and only Good into my life.
I trust and allow everyone to learn from their own life
experiences.
I depend on myself to be the good, loving and helpful
being I Am.
When we
need others to serve, help, teach, approve and lead, we depend on their
resources.
When we
depend on ourselves to serve, help, teach, approve and lead, we are
independent.
When we
learn to actualize our own hope and dreams, we learn to cooperate rather than
compete.
We grow
from dependence to independence to interdependence where all benefit.
In
families and society, we depend on parents and then learn to depend on
ourselves.
We crawl
and walk and run and fly.
We sleep
within, sleep along side, sleep in the next room and then sleep alone.
We are
nursed and weaned and learn to feed ourselves and then cook and prepare food
for others.
There is
an appropriate path to learn and grow to become mature, yet each one follows
their own.
Emotionally,
we may be soothed by others and then learn to self soothe and then learn to
clear our fears.
Mentally,
we are taught and then teach ourselves and eventually teach others.
Life is a
natural circle and cycle of growth from conception, birth, youth, adulthood and
old age.
When we
get stuck in our own growth cycle, there is usually a judgment or fear
over-riding.
There is often
a person or persons in our dependent state who may need someone to depend on
them.
Co-dependence
is considered as the need to have someone depend on you to give you what you
need.
If we have
parent, partner, therapist or doctor or belief that needs us to depend, we may
stay dependent.
There
are those that believe Love is dependent.
There are
those how believe it is healthy to be dependent.
There are
those who believe it is safe to be independent.
There are
those who believe it is more free to be independent.
It is
valuable to ask what and whom you depend on.
It is
worthwhile to notice the source of your self esteem and confidence.
There is
value in finding our what you fear losing or letting go.
The
awareness of our dependencies and attachments is helpful and healing.
Awareness
with non judgment is healing.
Awareness
without fear is freeing.
Awareness
with an open mind and forgiving heart is enlightening.
Awareness,
simply noticing and knowing develops growing trust and freedom.
Trusting
yourself and freeing yourself leads to flowing love and goodness to yourself
and others.
Trust and
freedom allow for natural healing and growth.
Allowing
yourself to see what is and let go of expectation, assumption and manipulation
is beneficial.
Being fully
present without attachment ends sorrow and suffering.
Are
you willing to grow up?
Do you
trust yourself to let go?
Are you
ready to simply trust and allow?
Is this
your time to be free?
Loving you and loving me Betty
Lue