NOTE:
“Five Keys of Successful Relationships, with Five Universal Power Tools will be offered this summer.
Six Tuesdays in Pleasant Hill, Reunion Center for Counseling, Healing and Growth begins June 7. 7-9PM.
Six Mondays in Brentwood, Unity Center for Inspired Living, begins July 11, 7-9PM
Also available on line for those who register to receive web Access or CD.
Requested by those learning to build successful marriages, parent-child, employer-employee relationships, business partnerships and friendships. I am offering a concise practical focused workshop series to provide the essential tools for effectiveness and success in every relationship.
Stepping beyond the correction of limiting emotional and communication habits, I teach how to implement what works for high level functioning in all relationships. Betty Lue
P.S.— I live what I teach. And it works!
We may find ourselves either acting out the negative imprinting from our original family system or attracting another to act out what we want to avoid.
We may blame and criticize, fear and avoid, go along to get along, or simply put up with unacceptable behaviors in ourselves and others.
We may go from relationship to relationship to find our ideal, without understanding that we can change.
We may feel doomed to unhealthy or failing relationships and tolerate the continuing problems.
We are here to heal our relationships.
We are here to undo the unloving behaviors in ourselves and others.
We are here to forgive past ignorant and hurtful behaviors and choose a better way.
We are here to relate to everyone with respect, loving response and co-operations, co-creating harmony.
Each relationship is another opportunity to find and practice a better way where everyone wins.
All relationships offer the experiences we need to heal, forgive, learn, let go, trust and encourage.
Everyone we encounter is both teacher and learner for us as teacher and learner for them.
We all are guided to be with those who push our buttons, so we can discover and heal our buttons.
Pain, problems and upsets (minor and major) show us where we have blocks to freedom and trust.
Life gives us clear “wake up calls” for where we have blocked, defended, avoided and withheld Love.
We are shown in all relationships what works and what doesn’t work.
We can erase what no longer works and choose again for a better more effective way to relate.
Our issues are merely symptoms of the underlying negative beliefs and limiting habits in relating.
When we recognize there are healing needs, we are willing to ask for help to heal, learn and grow.
We can only heal ourselves, but in doing our own work, the positive impact is recognized by others.
When we are healed and find inner peace and happiness, we offer a safe place for others to heal.
Ask yourself:
Are you happy in all your relationships?
Do you feel valued and respected?
Are you feeling lonely and separate?
Do you offer your best self to those you love?
Are you willing to forgive and begin again?
Can you release the blocks to love and trust?
Are you open to teach by everything you do and say?
Is it time to remember what you value and give your best?
Are you ready to give all your relationships to your highest values?
Can you imagine what your life will be when you truly love and feel loved by those you encounter?
Are you willing to be the blessing in the lives of those you know?
I know we are all in this together.
Everyone is touched and taught by those around us.
We all have the ability to heal and bless others with our healing.
Maybe this is your time to finish what you started.
Maybe now is your moment to realize what you purpose is!
Loving you and me and all as One.
Betty Lue