If you want to Love, clear all fear.
If you want to be happy, clear all fear.
If you want to be peaceful, clear all fear.
If you want to be confident, clear all fear.
What do we fear?
Everything we do not love.
What do we fear?
Losing what we value.
What do we fear?
Letting go of our fear.
What do we fear?
Forgetting how best to defend ourselves.
When we have forgotten our true nature, we experience fear.
When we have lost connection with the love we are, we feel afraid.
When we have believed other’s fear, we feel afraid, too.
When we believe we can only trust in fear to protect us, we live in our fear.
Fear for some is “false expectations appearing real.”
Fear is made us from our unloving fantasies, false teachings, scary stories and past history.
Fear is the apparent lack of love and acceptance.
Fear is the reason for all our defenses against what we fear.
The world we have created is amassed with inventions to protect us.
Our economy is based on creating defenses again bad stuff.
Most jobs, thoughts, conversations, writings, media are all about what we need to fear.
Human minds tend to spend the majority of time on judgments, fears and worries.
To clear the fear, we need to expose ourselves to Love.
Loving pictures, Loving beliefs, Loving truths, loving stories and memories.
To clear the fear, we need to extend, express, encourage, and expand Love in our thoughts and words.
To undo the belief in fear, we need to step out in peace and listen and understand the need for love.
Each of us is an agent of Love.
Each of us is a messenger of Love.
Each of us is a Gift of Love.
We must accept our vocation and fulltime volunteer job.
Let us be Love with out thoughts, our words and our actions,
Betty Lue
All relationships have the primary purpose of “clearing fear” and offering the healing with Love.
PS: It only takes one to make the difference!
Ten Commandments of Relationships
With mates, partners, friends, children, co-workers, etc.
Keep your agreements faithfully.(Communicate changes honestly and immediately.)
Give more than you expect to receive. Do more than your “fair” share.
Receive everything with open appreciation.Express your thanks sincerely and take nothing for granted.
Live your own life in integrity and on purpose.Clarify, communicate and live your mission, your path, your principles and values.
Be responsible for yourself, your work and live your life impeccably. Don’t expect others to pick up after you or take care of you.
Stop using, blame, criticism or guilt to control or manipulate.
Stop making demands, threats or using neediness to get your way.
Communicate effectively and respectfully.Request a time and place and tone of voice that works for both parties.
Be your best self in all circumstances.Focus always on teaching by example. (and apologize immediately when you forget or neglect.)
Use your time together wisely.Focus on meaningful, positive and inspiring conversation and activities.
Spend time, money, energy and resources only on what you value and want to increase.Waste nothing in your relationship. No arguing, pettiness, emotional dumping or negativity.
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There are many more agreements which I encourage you and your partner to write together.
I encourage all parties to take time to re-evaluate your agreements monthly or on a regular basis.
As circumstances change, there is a need to re-commit to what works for all participants.
Families need to meet to look at the specific needs of each individual to be at their best.
Couples need to ensure that the relationship is “serving all parties.
Business partners need to return to their original agreement and consider changing roles as needed.
Life requires that we be in relationship.
With respect for ourselves and each other there is open communication.
With responsibility for the quality of our relationships, there is a willingness to seek what works for all.
With cooperation there is encouragement to listen for ways to serve the needs of everyone.
When everyone WINS, the relationships are harmonious, peaceful and enjoyable.
Blessings to us all in our willingness to continue to explore and find better ways of relating,
Betty Lue