All criticism is about the critic.If it is helpful to you in hearing it, let it benefit you.
If not helpful, let it go quickly with blessings of gratitude.
Everything is an excuse to be in relationship.
The purpose of all relationships is to heal ourselves.To heal ourselves is to be at peace and on purpose in our lives.
All upsets are past similars.When we are upset by anyone or anything, it represents an unhealed place in our past. (early childhood)
When we are willing to forgive everything and everyone including ourselves, we have no upsets.
We are here to be truly helpful.We are born into our family system to be a healing and helpful presence.
When we allow others unhealed stuff to wound us, we forget we are here to Love.
Life is for giving.When we are giving the best we have, we feel whole, happy and free.
When we withhold the Love within us, we feel lacking, hurting and limited.
Changing our minds is our most powerful tool.To respect is to see things differently, for what they are…not our emotional interpretation of them.
When we focus solely on what is before us, without judgment, we can respond creatively and effectively.
Love is our natural state.We were created by Love, as Love for the purpose of Loving.
The only mistake we ever make is when we forget to Love.
Where there is a lack of Love is always a call for Love.When receiving Love, be receptive and appreciative.
Where there is anger, fear, separateness, guilt and blame, we are being called to Love.
To be responsible is to be able to respond with Love.When we take impeccable care of ourselves, we are able to respond with truth, trust and respect.
When we are needy and lack in self love, we react from a place of lack, unable to be responsible.
Love is the answer, whatever the question.Trust will settle every problem now.
Forgiveness is the key to happiness.
There is nothing to do.
To create a safe space in which someone can be known is the key to unconditional Love.Undoing defenses, miscommunication and distrust will encourage openness, honesty and appreciation.
Be willing to drop all judgments, misperceptions and withheld resentment and you will be a safe space.
Loving us all as we remember to let go and Love again,
Betty Lue