Tuesday, November 19, 2019

Everyone Deserves Respect


Affirmations:
I value, respect and learn from all our differences.
I express my differences with full joy in being open and willing.
Through our acceptance and understanding we learn to truly love.
I forgive my fears, misunderstanding and pre-judgments.


Everyone Deserves Respect

Beyond all judgments, opinions and comparisons, we all deserve respect.
Within all judgments, opinions and comparison, we are all different and all similar.
How we approach one another depends on our judgments of our own differences.
When we are self loving, self forgiving and self accepting, we easily respect difference.

Our judgments come from not feeling safe, connected and respected.
Defensiveness and judgments of others come from our fear of differences.
When we are similar in our families, workplace and communities, we feel safety in familiarity.
When we feel safe and comfortable, we often feel in control and at peace.

We have a diverse world and nation.
Differences often create innocent curiosity and wanting to learn and understand.
When differences feel unsafe, there is a fearful aversion to anything out of what is usual and customary.
Being willing to see what is similar in all humanity is healing and of value to those who are afraid.

When we are unafraid, there is no bullying.
When we feel safe, there is openness.
When we are loving, we feel innocent curiosity.
When we are called to bring unity, we always respect and listen deeply to others.

This is a time on our planet to learn from everyone and everything.
This is our moment as individuals to reach out to others without prejudice.
There is a way we can clear our own fear and begin to nourish natural love.
Together we can open our hearts and minds to respect all differences.

Where there is openness, there is learning, connection and understanding.
Where there is understanding, there is willingness to care and share.
Where there is sharing, there is peace and harmony.
When there is peace, there is respect and safety for all.

Consider changing your mind and learn about differences.
Consider changing your heart and begin to respect all others.
Consider changing your family and allow each person to believe and live their own way.
Consider changing your world by respecting the rights of everyone to live in peace and safety.

We are here to learn.
We are here to love.
We are here to respect our differences and the differences of others.
We are here to live with peace and good will for all.

Love prevails.
Respecting us all as we perceive and believe,
Betty Lue

Monday, November 18, 2019

Take Care!


Affirmations:
I give everyone the best I know.
I respect the young and the old with love.
I model what is respectful, responsible and in harmony with others.
I treat each person as I want to be treated, no matter how they treat me.

Take Care of All Children

Who is taking care of our children?
Who is supporting their parents?
Who is educating our families?
How are we going to create healthy communities?

Our families and children are at the foundation of our society.
When we do not have healthy families, we have a dysfunctional society.
When we have unhappy parents, we have unhappy children.
When our children are not happy, they do not thrive and dream and create good lives.

What can we do?
First begin with you.
Heal your own unhappy childhood.
Forgive what was unhealthy and learn a better way.

Educate yourself.
Read and observe healthy relationships.
Find a good role model and mentor.
Set your own goals following your highest values.

Get help when you know you need it.
Find positive teachers and counselors and new ideas when you are ready.
Listen to yourself and others to better understand and accept needed changes.
Always pay attention to your basic own basic needs and the needs of others.

Within your family system, acknowledge mistakes and limiting beliefs.
Make amends for your false teachings, hurtful words and behavior.
Commit to being a better role model, parent, partner and family member.
Choose to think, speak and act with integrity, demonstrating what you want to teach others.

It is imperative that we all take full responsibility for the mistakes and misbehavior we see..
It is essential that we commit to doing a better job within our family and our community.
It is helpful to listen to exactly what we say and do as we are saying to others.
It is our responsibility to give our very best to one another, young and old.

Children listen to our phone calls and family interactions and copy us.
Children watch TV, movies, news and cartoons and copy what they see.
Families pass down dysfunction habits and harmful behaviors .
It is time we stop, assess and make choices and changes for the benefit of all.

Thanks for being open and willing to listen, stop, look, forgive and choose again.
Betty Lue

IF CHILDREN (AND ADULTS) LIVE WITH……….

If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with: criticism, hostility, fear, pity, ridicule or jealousy,
They will learn to: condemn, fight, be apprehensive, feel sorry for themselves, feel shy and feel envy.

If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and others.
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.

Sunday, November 17, 2019

Give Goodness Generously


Affirmations:
Life is totally responsive to me.
I receive as I have given.
To Have All I Give All To All.
I freely give the best I know within me.

Give What You Want To Get!

Give your best and enjoy the best outcomes.
Ingest the best and forget the rest.
Seek the best in you and share it wherever you go.
Live the highest truth you know and appreciate it.

What can you do to turn around the world you see?
How can you see things differently in the best light?
What can you say to make others respond with love?
How can you know what is best for you is best for others?

Life is for giving and you are the Gift you give.
Life is for loving and you are the Love you share.
Life is for learning and you are teaching what you want to learn.
Life is for enjoying and you are the joy you bring to every moment.

If you don’t like name-calling, stop calling yourself and others names.
If you don’t like arguing and conflict, stop arguing and trying to be right.
If you don’t like anger, stop acting and speaking with anger.
You can begin to be the one who makes the difference.

If you like peace and harmony, be peaceful.
If you like happiness, choose to be happy.
If you want positive relationship, make positive connections.
You can be the change you want to see.

If this sounds to easy, learn to manage your emotional state.
If this seems to good to be true, learn to be good to you.
If this is making it all simple, try it out and see how simply it works.
If you are open and willing, this is a great way to begin.

One step at a time, you will see the results.
One relationship at a time, you will get the outcome you want.
The best begets the best.
And you will learn to be patient and appreciate your own “givingness”.

We are here to learn from what we give.
We receive what we give with our thoughts, words and actions.
We get a direct reflection of our own consciousness and unconscious.
We learn what have given and receive in like kind the thoughts we hold in mind.

If you want more, give more of the same.
If you want more love and joy ad peace, give them generously.
If you desire more, share what you desire.
Life is like a fountain of giving and receiving fully and freely.

 Unlimited abundant flow is given unto us to use always for Goodness Sake.
Loving you,
Betty Lue