Friday, September 20, 2019

How Does Your Life Work for You?

This is my life and I choose to live my way.
I choose a life of profound love and joy.
I never quit on love.
I choose to give and receive only Good everyday.

Does Your Life Work for You?

The real question is:
Do You Do the work to create the Life You Want?
Are you willing to be wholly responsible for your life?
Are you choosing what you really want to have?

Do you stay where you are not wanted?
Do you do what feels negative and hurtful?
Do you allow yourself to indulge in what is unhealthy?
Are you spending your time, energy and money on what has limited or temporary value?

Are you creating what is good rather than tolerating what is bad?
Do you cling to what was comfortable rather than choose what is life-giving?
Are you longing for what is better instead of living for what is good right now?
Do you depress yourself with past history rather than inspire yourself with future victory?

Are you learning and growing?
Are you healing and helping?
Are you believing and understanding?
Are you challenging and overcoming?

What are you doing with your life?
Each persona has their own journey meant to awaken and expand our consciousness.
We have opportunities to stay on the high way or take detours and get distracted.
We can be seduced, kidnapped, punished and suffer or arise from the ashes of destruction.

Our lives are the canvas on which we paint our own reality story.
Our choices empower us to have and be and do what is right and true for us.
We can decide to enjoy our experience. master our challenges and own our successes.
What shall it be for you?

You have what you are able to learn from.
You have as much as you can master.
You have what you can handle.
You have what you have asked for

What do you choose to do with your life?
Are you victimizing yourself and quitting?
Are you letting others tell you how to live?
Are you willing to be the authority and “author” of your life?

Your life is an amazing unlimited gift.
You have examples of others overcoming obstacles.
You know you have it in you.
Time to choose to live fully and freely and let others live their own way.

Live today wisely and well as your gift to you!
Loving you,
Betty Lue

Thursday, September 19, 2019


I create my home a place of peace and beauty.
I honor myself and my family with a happy home.
I treat myself and everyone as a welcome guest in my home.
I love to listen to the quiet many times during the day.

Set the Tone in Your Home!

Home is meant to be a SAFE place.
Home is meant to be a peaceful happy place.
Home is meant to be what renews us everyday.
Your Home is meant to be a Place of Love.

When you come home from work, you want to feel welcome.
When you come home from school, you want to feel loved.
When you come home from traveling, you want to feel safe.
When you come home, you want to know this is where you can be yourself.

Home must feel comfortable, clean and harmonious.
When home has good sights and sounds, people feel comfortable.
When home allows us to rest and renew ourselves, people want to be at home.
When home is the place where we are heard, loved and respected, everyone loves being at home.

The Tone in the Home usually is set by the Mother.
Mothers usually are the homemaker and the mood setter.
When Mama is happy, everyone is happy.
When the mother treats herself, others and her home with love and respect, others learn to respect her.

When we learn to greet people with love and appreciation, others learn to follow.
When we treat ourselves with kindness, we remember to treat others with kindness.
When we flow with life’s changes and problems, others learn how to do the same.
When we are respectful, responsible and cooperative with our family members, others learn too!

Simple guidelines:
“Respect for one another’s individual needs.”
Beauty inside and outside.
Bedrooms feeling quiet, relaxing and comfortable…..ready to sleep.
Bathrooms clean and tidy, ready to clean and clear the days stuff.
Kitchen bright and light, open and ready to prepare food that feels healthy and energizing.
Living areas uncluttered and easy to relax and enjoy one another without feeling like working.
Everyone has their own private space somewhere in the home, garage, closet, room, etc.
Quiet  time and happy time in family areas, depending on the activities.
Headsets for noisy music, videos and TV.
Yelling and running outside.
No swearing, threatening or hurtful language.
Gentle happy sounds and music
Conversations respectful and encouraging.
The one who keeps the home together is responsible to set the tone.
Preferable sharing not arguing.
Shared home care written and reminders, not telling or demanding.
Find out what people want to give to do to be truly helpful.
Use rewards not punishment to encourage cooperative behavior.

Set the tone by first giving yourself what you want and need.
From your own awareness you will see what works best for you and everyone.
The home is the place people want to gather, to renew and enjoy one another.
Take the time to create a tone in your home that is beautiful, happy and loving.

Loving us all for being happy in our homes,
Betty Lue

Create Your Own Guidelines for your home that help everyone feel good!

Guidelines for  a Respectful and Responsible Household
Your Home is your sanctuary and safe haven.

Remove shoes when entering your home.
(Have some place to neatly set them.)
Keep  home clear of clutter and clean.
Speak with respect to one another at all times.
Say ”please” and “thank you”.
No yelling, arguing or rough play inside.
Take it outside if necessary.
Do not yell across the house to get someone’s attention.
Walk closer to talk to people.
Keep noise down by using earphones or headsets.
Respect the requests of those who are responsible for the home.
If you share another’s home, ask permission to eat food & use the kitchen.
Eat at the table and clean up after yourself.
Be responsible and cooperate with those asking for help.

Wednesday, September 18, 2019


I step away from frustration and choose direction.
I step away from past commiseration and choose appreciation.
I undo what I no longer want to be true and choose what is True for Me.
I turn over the past and plant the future for myself.

Turn It Over!

When you are stressed, turn it over.
When you are afraid, turn it over.
When you are lost, turn it over.
When you are lonely, turn it over.

Turn it over to what?
Where do I turn?
What do I do?
How do I turn it over?

Turn from darkness.
Turn toward the Light.
Turn from the past.
Turn toward the present.

Turn over the fear.
Look for the Love.
Turn over the confusion.
Look for the clarity.

Turn your mind from what hurts.
Seek what brings you Joy.
Stop what is bad.
Seek only for Good.

When we seek what we want to be, do and have, we stop doing what is not what we want!
When we highlight on our fears, upsets and problems, we can exaggerate their shadow.
When we use our flash light to find the fun, safety and ease, we begin to see the way.
When we try to do it all by ourselves, we often get lost in our self-made dilemma.

Turn it all over to Goodness, what some call God, Universe, Higher Power.
Give up your own limited thinking and anxious beliefs.
Build a bridge over troubled waters and gently ease your way across.
Come home to what supports, nurtures and nourishes, loves and cares for you.

Peace to your mind.
Love in your heart.
Health in your body.
Joy in your Spirit.

Loving you for loving you.
Turn it over and seek the Light in You.
Loving us all in turning it over to the Love We Are.
Betty Lue