Affirmations:
I trust healthy, happy and positive role models.
I live and learn easily and quickly from all mistakes.
I pay attention to what works and what doesn’t work.
I live in integrity with what I know if “right” for me.
I trust others to find their own “right” way and live true to themselves.
I am willing and open to choose a life that benefits everyone, including
myself.
I
am willing and open to listen and learn, observe and change to find what works.
I
am willing to explore the possibilities in life with an open and flexible
mind.
I
am willing to support myself in being all I am here to be and giving my best.
How willing are you?
How
open are you to hearing other’s ideas?
How
willing are you to experiment and explore?
How
open are you to gathering others opinions?
Life is more fun, safe and easy when we are willing.
Life
is more creative, prosperous and productive when we are open.
Life
is more rewarding, flowing and transformative when we are allowing.
Life
is more peaceful, happy and kind when we trust in the difference perspectives
and paths.
Many are taught there is a RIGHT WAY to live, to be, to Love, to learn.
This
is easier when you want to rule or control the masses.
Many
are taught there is strength in attaching to one way, the right way and that is
our way.
This
seems simpler than to be open to the diversity of beliefs and ways to live.
We live in an age of rapid change, diversity of ideas and multiplicity of
paths and lifestyles.
When
we fear change, we will cling to our own and align with those who agree.
When
we are not living in integrity, we may fear and resist those who are confident
in their choices.
Our
criticism of the righteous, may be that we fear their influence on us when we
are uncertain.
Finding your purpose and place in the world is essential to inner peace and
right action.
Knowing
what is best for us will allow us to accept others’ choices.
When
we live truly in integrity, we are not bumped off course by others’ beliefs.
When
we are off center, exploring our own way or simply out of integrity, we may be
close-minded.
When we trust in our choices, we respect others’ right to choose.
When
we know our own mind, we allow others to explore to find theirs.
When
we respect the process of learning, we encourage exploration and learning by
natural consequences.
When
we want everyone to live and learn, we support others to grow through healthy
exploration.
When choices are limited by a restricted environment and authorities, many
will rebel and resist.
When
we grow into a time of finding our own way and emancipating, there will be
“mistakes”.
Parting
of finding our own right path is following others who are off path and
out of integrity.
As
those who are growing up know, it is an uncomfortable time of experimentation.
When we punish ourselves or others for mistakes, we often deter or distract
from finding our way.
When
we criticize and threaten others, we may cause their resistance, rebellion and
delay their learning.
When
we distract by trying to convince or restrict, we may not allow natural
learning to take place.
The open and willing parent, teacher and partner will create a safe
environment of open discussion, greater awareness and freedom of choice.
I appreciate each person, family, community and nation, open and
willing to be:
1. Positive role model.
2. Respect for differences.
3. Encouraging of the right to choose.
4. Providing safe and open sharing.
5. The right to life, liberty and the pursuit of
happiness.
Thank you,
Betty Lue
Everyone is a teacher.
Every thought word and deed is teaching all the
universe.
Choose your words.
Speak and write them with Love.
If Children
and Adults Live With……….
If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If
children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If
children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If
children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for
themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to
feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to
feel envy.
If children live with: criticism, hostility, fear,
pity, ridicule or jealousy,
They will learn to: condemn, fight,
be apprehensive, feel sorry for themselves, feel shy and feel envy.
If children live
with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If
children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If
children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If
children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If
children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If
children live with recognition, they learn it is good to
have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If
children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If
children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If
children live with kindness and consideration, they
learn respect.
If children live with security, they
learn to have faith in themselves and others.
If children live
with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in
which to live.