Wednesday, September 04, 2013

Family Healing

Forgiveness sets me free.
I quickly and easily forgive all blocks to Love.
I extend peace, so that I may experience Peace.
I receive what I give with gratitude for the gift.
I know what I want and so it is what I give.

When you HATE, you deny your own LOVE.
When you dislike, you withhold your LIKES.
When you avoid, you separate from yourself.
When you crucify, you feel blame and guilt.

There are other choices than to deny, withhold, separate and blame.
When we feel unloving, we must move far enough away from the memories to find love.
When we feel unforgiving, we must create a space where we can remember to forgive.
When we feel angry, hurt, guilty, afraid, we must forgive ourselves for our own continued pain.

Holding past pain, is re-wounding ourselves  and others again and again.
Holding unloving memories continues to crucify both victim and perpetrator.
Holding onto our defenses reinforces there can be no healing or wholeness for anyone.
Living with past history, stops our lives from healing and creating anew.

Family healing may be done when others are far away.
Family healing can be done when people are no longer here in bodies.
Family healing can be done silently or with written or spoken words.
Family healing can be done simply because we choose to return to Love.

What can you do to heal yourself?
What can you do to undo the pain?
What can you do to stop letting the past haunt you?
What can you do to experience Love again?

The best defense is a good offense.
The best offense is to forgive and Love.
The best protection is the projection of Goodness.
The best projection is to send blessings of Peace.

What you give, you receive.
What you give will heal them.
What you receive, will heal you.
It is best to give and receive healing thoughts and words and deeds.

Stop waiting for someone else to do the work.
Forgive, erase and release just because you want to be free of pain.
Clear the fear and defensiveness just because you want to be happy.
Let go of your resistance and simply extend Peace and blessings, just because it is the right thing to do.

You don’t need to see them or talk with them.
You just need to let go of your avoidance, resistance and fear.
You don’t need to be close or make them your friends.
You just need to be open to be respectful and response-able.

You see, the healing of your history is up to you.
The healing of your family is yours to do.
The return to Love will heal and set you free.
The forgiveness you give is the healing you need.

Loving you for doing the Work!
Betty Lue

Family Reminders are coming in 2014.

“Prayer For A Loved One”

Dear Heart,
I will not worry, fret or be unhappy over you.
I will not be anxious concerning you.
I will not be afraid for you.
I will not give up on you.
I will not blame, criticize or condemn you.
I will remember first, last and always that you are God’s child, that you have His Spirit in you.
I will trust this Spirit to take care of you, to be a light to your path, to provide for your needs.
I will think of you as always being surrounded by God’s loving Presence, enfolded in His protecting care, as kept safe and secure in Him.
I will be patient with you.
I will have confidence in you.
I will stand by you in faith, and bless you in my prayers, knowing that you are growing, knowing that you are finding the help you need, the love you need, the healing you need, the financial freedom you need.
I have only good feelings in my heart about you.
I am willing to let you live your life as you see fit.
Your way may not be my way, but I will trust the Spirit of God in you to show you the way of your highest Good.
God loves you and I love you!
I have confidence in you and I believe in you!!
(author unknown)

Forgiveness is the Key to Happiness and Inner Peace
Forgiveness is an eraser filled with Love. 
Every morning and every night, say this prayer:

I forgive everything and everyone, every experience and memory of the past and present that needs forgiveness.
I forgive positively everyone.

God is Love.
I am forgiven and governed by God’s Love alone.
God’s Love is now harmonizing my life and its problems.
Realizing this, I abide in peace.

I am now forgiven by everything and everyone of the past and present that needs to forgive me.
I know that forgiveness unblocks whatever stands between me and my good.

I am grateful for the power of God’s Word.