Monday, September 16, 2013

Do You Care?

I deeply care about each person I encounter.
I demonstrate you caring with interest and honesty.
I give my very best as I take impeccable care of me.
I trust my intention to always think, speak and do only Good.

If you care about your life, you care about what works.
If you care about your health, you care about what works.
If you care about your finances, you care about what works.
If you don’t care you will just keep on doing what doesn’t work.

Complaining doesn’t work.
Playing the “poor me” game doesn’t work.
Getting angry doesn’t work.
Getting someone else to do it for you, doesn’t work.

Being sad and mad doesn’t work.
Having a temper tantrum doesn’t work.
Blaming someone or something doesn’t work.
Wishing things would change doesn’t work.

What works is to Do the Work.
What works is to behave like an adult.
What works is to drop the negative attitude.
What works is to stop whining and being needy.

What works is to stop, breathe and listen within.
What works is to observe what is needed and wanted.
What works is to set a goal and begin to achieve step by step.
What works is to depend on yourself and your creativity.

What works is to set aside useless emotions and get real.
What works is to believe in yourself and your ability to resolve issues.
What works is to listen to what is best for all concerned.
What works it to remember what you really want.

What works is to use your words wisely in an effective way.
What works is to ask for the knowledge wisdom and skills of someone who knows.
What works is to become open and willing t change your mind, words and behavior.
What works is to be a conscious and conscientious grown up.

What works is to take full responsibility.
What works is to be able and willing to respond, not react.
What works is to take everyone into consideration.
What works is to want the best for everyone.

When you care, you choose wisely.
When you care, you choose with kindness.
When you care, you choose with openness.’
When you care, you choose with true consideration.

I know you really care.
Step away form emotions which distort, distract and interfere.
Be willing to choose what will bring peace to you and all concerned.
Listen within and trust in your Loving guidance.

Loving you, 
Betty Lue

If parents behave like adults, children would learn how to be adult! 
Please care about everything you think, and say and do!
The world and all our kids are learning from you.

If Children (and Adults) Live With……….

If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with: criticism, hostility, fear, pity, ridicule or jealousy,
They will learn to: condemn, fight, be apprehensive, feel sorry for themselves, feel shy and feel envy
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and others.
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.