Thursday, August 08, 2013

What Will It Take for Us to Learn?

I forgive myself for getting opinionated and stuck.
Learning is fun, safe and easy.
Everything works together for Good.
Life teaches me with everything I experience.
I ingest the best and forget the rest.

Some learn from sweet surprises and blessings.
Some pay attention to loud voices.
Some wake up with harsh criticism.
Some learn from disaster and death.

What does it take for you to stop and pay attention?
What do you need to open your mind to new truths?
What works for you to take responsibility for your life?
What do you want to stop what no longer works?

When you think you are a victim, you act like a victim and you get victimized.
When you think you are bad, your behavior badly and are judged as bad.
When you believe you are a failure, you act like a failure and continue to fail.
When you know you are kind, you treat others with kindness and are perceived as kind.

Amazing how life works that way!
The way we think is how we behave and is reinforced with others beliefs about us.
Many people see it as backwards and allow others to create how you act and what you think.
You can undo what others think of you by changing your attitude, your words and your behavior.

It is fun, safe and easy to change our lives.
It is fun, safe and easy to undo what is not true.
It is fun, safe and easy to erase all mistakes.
It is fun, safe and easy to create ourselves anew.

Perhaps the greatest quick solution essential to change is FORGIVENESS.
Without erasing the past, nothing would change.
Without releasing our judgments, we continue the condemnation.
Without deleting our prior programming, we would just do it all again and again.

FORGIVENESS offers everything we want.
Forgiveness is the magic mental eraser filled with LOVE.
Forgiveness clears distorted thinking, misbeliefs and false projections.
Forgiveness cleans our own confusion so we can see and create what we really want.

Who and what are we erasing?
Who and what are we forgiving?
Who and what are we deleting?
Who and what are we undoing?

Let go of what no longer serves you.
Learn what is Good for you.
Let go of what is not beneficial to others.
Learn what is your blessing to give.

Allow yourself to learn from everyone and everything.
Love learning and you will be benefitted.
Betty Lue

If Children (and Adults) Live With……….

If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with: criticism, hostility, fear, pity, ridicule or jealousy,
They will learn to: condemn, fight, be apprehensive, feel sorry for themselves, feel shy and feel envy

If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and others.
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.