Thursday, February 25, 2010

Always Loving You!

Are you always loving you?
Do you love yourself unconditionally?
Are you willing to accept yourself the way you are?
Are you trusting and believing in you everyday all the way?

Most have learned love needs to be earned.
Most believe love has implied conditions.
Most have experienced what appears to be the end of Love.
Most assume Love requires special relationships with special favors.

This form of human (egoic) loving is based on performance and preferences.
This feeling of love seems to change with moods, beliefs, history and chemistry.
This way of loving is uncertain and requires vigilance in how to get and maintain love.
This loving state is not natural but is conjured up based on the images of love from our past.

When we are caught in the web of Love, we try hard not to get hurt and to keep what feels good.
When we are in love with being loved, we often seek to hang on to the  high of  “in love” feelings.
When we are seeking the love we lost as children or  to get the love we deserve, we attach to wherever it seems to be found.
When we do not love ourselves, we work to get others to love us to make up for our lack of love.

How do we sustain that loving feeling?
How do we love ourselves unconditionally?
How do we not get hurt by others lack of love?
How do we pass the test of perfect peace in all relationships?

1)    Forgive everything and everyone for all time, including yourself.
2)    Give yourself impeccable care inside and out, mind, body and spirit.
3)    Listen within for “What is really best for me today?” and respond with willingness.
4)    Honor your whole life with all its seeming mistakes, highs and lows, all of it.
5)    Take responsibility happily for the life you have chosen and how you have experienced it.
6)    Be willing to own your values and live them openly in all circumstances .
7)    Trust your self and believe in yourself. Cast out fear and doubt.
8)    Choose to affirm in everyway your Goodness, your Wholeness and your Love.

Learning to let go of doubt, fear, comparison and self judgment is the key to consistent happiness.
Letting go of your judged history, limiting beliefs and the opinions of others is key to inner peace.
Realizing your unlimited potential and power to choose and be responsible is essential to security.
Creating your daily life and relationships to support the best in you is necessary to love you well.

Loving you consistently without conditions eliminates the dependence on others’ love and approval.
“I no longer need others approval.  I now approve of myself.
Trusting and Freeing yourself to choose what is best for you is best for everyone.
“I now can say “NO” without losing anyone’s love.”

You are Love ItSelf.
You are created by Love as Love for the Holy purpose of Loving.
When you remember this Truth consistently, you are happy and at peace.
When you forget and seek to get Love outside yourself, you may experience disappointment and conditional loving.

Loving you unconditionally as I love myself,
Betty Lue

Do It Anyway

People are often unreasonable, illogical and self-centered.
Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.
Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies.  Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you.
Be honest and frank anyway.

What you spend years building, someone could destroy it all overnight.
Build anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous.
Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow.
Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough.
Give the world the best you’ve got anyway.

You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God.
It was never between you and them anyway.