Monday, January 13, 2014

New Day, New Year, New Beginnings!

Also—See the Nov. 13 Loving Reminders below, if there is something you want to heal!

Do you recognize that every moment is new?
Do you know you can change your mind in a millisecond?
Do you realize you can have a new life everyday?
Do you believe you can change your prosperity, relationships, emotions and attitude?

For those who change easily and quickly, life is a surprise, an adventure, a school of learning.
For those who resist and fear change, life may be drudgery, stuckness or a safe comfort zone.
You learn to fear and resist, control and maintain, allow and adapt,  or let go and enjoy!
You get to choose which way to go, simply by changing your mind, your thoughts, your beliefs.

Your programming tells you that your way of thinking and feeling and reacting is RIGHT!
Often you may have learned from your worldly encounters that you must “stick to your beliefs”.
Memories archived in your internal computer may cause fear, attachment, distrust in the new ways.
You may have learned from your history and those you admire and love to stay true to the old ways.

Everything is changing all the time.
Life is changing and adapting to what is current.
Human beings often grow attached to the same old ways.
Humanity often lives in fear, because people fear change.

What do you want to be?
Be Happy and free or anxious and limited?
What do you want to do?
Enjoy life and embrace all the new possibilities?
What do you want to have?
Learn and grow or resist and despair?
What do you want to give?
Share the wisdom and Love you have or save it for yourself?

Everyone of us can have an extraordinary and miracle0-minded life today and everyday.
Each one can be open minded and willing to see what is possible within and live it all.
Everyone has the inner potential to change everything immediately without caution.
Each one can change what we think and feel, believe and see, let go and heal.

It is up to us to begin each day brand new!
It is true respect to see each person anew?
It is ours to change out minds and our lives?
We can simply by thinking and knowing we can!

I invite you to encourage novelty in your life.
Routine and ritual are good for those who seem scattered and in chaos.
Novelty is healthy for those who fear change and fall asleep in routine.
Observe and listen inside for what is healthy to change for you.

It is true that an attitude of gratitude brings health and happiness into your life.
It is true that you can be brand new everyday if you so choose.
It is true nothing is every exactly the same as it was.
It is true that life is showing us how to be ever new.

Loving the new me and new you,
Betty Lue

And to demonstrate the paradox....below is a two month old reminder that you may need to read today!!

 Read today’s reminder very carefully!  
When you clear your hurtful and fearful and unloving thoughts, there will be no hurtful, scared and unloving feelings or words or behavior.
Today is the first day of your lives.
Today you can begin to heal.
Today is your choice to change your whole life!
Betty Lue

I heal myself with forgiveness today.
I erase my unloving thoughts and feelings.
I undo what is not true and see only love and the call for Love.
I am willing to stop all stinkin’ thinkin’!
My mind automatically erases everything that is not wholly loving and true.

November 13, 2013 Loving Reminders

How Healing Works!

Thoughts are learned.
Feelings follow our thoughts.
We can heal our feelings by changing our thinking.
When we believe our feelings, we may ignore the initiating thoughts.

Good thoughts generate good feelings.
Scared thoughts create fearful feelings.
Resentful thoughts make angry feelings.
Positive thoughts cause happy feelings.

We make up thoughts based on our judgments and what we have learned from the past.
The thoughts we make up may create hurtful emotions which can lead us to doing hurtful things.
First a thought, often unconscious, followed by an emotion, creates a behavior or reaction.
Observing our thinking and changing our mind will undo all painful emotions and behaviors.

When we take others; words or behavior personally, we hurt ourselves.
When we believe another’s negativity is directed at us, we may react with negativity.
When we allow the world’s events or people’s behavior to cause upset in us, we feel attacked.
When we defend, counter attack or blame others, we become a participant in the unconscious patterns.

When we get others to sympathize or dramatize with us, we reinforce our feelings.
When we scare ourselves and others with our emotions, we get stuck believing our feelings.
When others buy into the feelings we voice, we let emotion lead our choices.
When we are taught and shown that feelings rule, we may use them as our power tool.

Emotions are simply life energy put into motion by our thinking.
We can use emotion for good or for harm.
We can control our emotions and their expression, or we can let them run away with us.
When we master our thinking and emotions, our thoughts and words because an effective tool.

Fear begets fear.
Anger begets anger.
Hurt causes defensiveness.
Attack creates attack.

Forgiveness is a powerful tool to clear away ineffective and unhealthy emotions.
Forgiveness is an eraser filled with love, to be used to clear away past fear, judgment and pain.
Forgiveness is the key to happiness, because it erases unhappiness from our minds.
With no negative thoughts or feelings, we can freely choose for what brings peace and happiness.

Let us stop hurting ourselves by misinterpreting what is said and done as an attack on us.
Let us stop hurting others by refusing to hurt them back with our words and deeds.
Let us stop hurting humanity by thinking, saying and doing unkind, disrespectful and unhealthy things.
Let us stop hurting anyone or anything by forgiving past mistakes and unconsciousness.

Let us choose again to heal from within.
Let us take full responsibility to forgive and erase the errors in our mind.
Let us be willing to be the one to bring only peace and happiness into our lives.
Let us love, trust, respect and honor our own Goodness.

We can heal ourselves.
Loving us in our willingness to do the work!
Betty Lue

Healing Our Projections => Seeing Only Wholeness

1.  We perceive what we believe.
2.  We believe what we think we are.
3.   If I believe I am my past, then I believe you are your past.
4.   Believing in my past is to see and live it over again in all I see and do and am.
5.   Believing in your past is to remember it and continue to blame you for it.
6.  The more I feel guilty about my past, the more I place blame on you.
7.  All anger is my guilt projected onto others.
8.  To forgive my past is to release it.
9.  To release is to see it no more.
10.As I release my past, I release others from my projected guilt and self-judgment.
11. As I see myself whole, I see wholeness in others.
12 .As I heal my guilt about past mistakes, I heal my fear of the future.
13. To be in the present is to heal (erase) the past.
14. As I live in the present and love myself as I am now, I like you in the present and see you as you are now.

15. In this present moment, there is only Love for ourselves, each other and all that is.