Thursday, February 07, 2013

Don’t Get Stuck

FYI: I sit at my computer each morning and write these daily Loving Reminders from my own inner guidance. I have been sharing them with now thousands around the world since 1999.  When they resonate with you, please use them in your life.  When they do not feel “true”  for you, simply delete.
Each one of us has an inner guidance system, when we quiet our minds and open our hearts.
 Please allow the inspiration shared here be an source of encouragement and support for you to live your life in the highest possible way that works for you.
I trust and respect you in your choices as you learn what works for you!  Betty Lue

If you want to read how all of this began read the story below.  If you want to see many years of archived reminders, go to  If you want to get a copy of my latest Relationship Reminders book, paperback or on kindle, go to  Feel free to connect with me via email, for skype, phone or in person appts available.  I am here to serve in the highest and best way I know. 

Don’t Get Stuck

Where we get stuck we are attached to being right.
When we get stuck, we are vulnerable.
Where we get stuck, we stop learning.
When we get stuck, we think we know.

Being comfortable can be stuck.
Being righteous, can be stuck.
Making assumptions can be stuck.
Being critical can be stuck.

Consider the possibility that what is right for you may not true for others.
Consider being only with people who agree leads to stagnation.
Consider that cults and cultures are based on everyone agrees.
Consider that when we are not expanding our awareness, we are dying.

When we get attached to our way, we limit ourselves and our learning.
When we make others wrong, we believe we know what is right.
When we try to defend and protect our position without listening, we limit our growth.
When we talk over, demand, threaten, shame others, we are stuck on winning.

Those who shut our others ideas stay small and narrow in outlook.
Those who listen to others with open-mindedness expand in wisdom.
Those who are prejudiced (pre-judge people) and issues are unwilling to see another way.
Those who listen with awareness and love provide healing and growth for themselves and others. 

When we stay stuck with our own opinions, beliefs and ideas, we need to be comfortable.
When we stay stuck within our own narrow perspective, we fail to see, know and love others.
When we stay stuck with our own kindred spirit and make others wrong, we ignore the differencs.
When we open to listen, accept and understand others’ as they are, we expand our ability to Love.

As we come to know and respect differences in cultures, religions, genders, lifestyles, we feel safe.
When we criticize and judge others, we fear being criticized and judged.
As we shut out those who are different, we deny the learning value of experiencing uniqueness.
When we seek conformity and sameness, we become inflexible and unable to expand our thinking.

Over the years of “adulteration”, often people seem to get rigid and defiant in their opinions.
The more afraid people are of difference, the more they seem to avoid, attack or feel separate.
When we stay open and curious, innocent and trusting, we expand our ability to let go of fear.
When we let go of fear and extend Love, we realize we are all created Good and whole and Beautiful.

Life is full of delight when we are open-minded and appreciative.
Life is an adventure when we learn from everyone and everything.
Life is a natural learning laboratory when we open our minds to understand.
When we recognize how perfect the diversity, we embrace what is different with Love.

Loving all of our paths and unique life purpose and ways of healing, learning and growing.
Betty Lue

Origin of Inner Listening

In 1976 it was suggested I sit and do nothing for just five minutes daily by a spiritual mentor/teacher.  I chose 5AM in the morning and immediately saw/felt and heard a vision of a Home of Infinite Love available to all people.  Over the years,  I have co-created many such Centers and Homes with the guidance of Spirit within. The next morning I brought a pad of paper and a pen to sit, and as I was simply breathing, I knew words were coming into my mind and I wrote them down.  When I later read them, I saw they had great spiritual meaning.  As an innocent, trusting and ‘True Believer’, I then quieted myself every morning and began to follow what I heard within.  My life became fun, safe, easy and miraculous in so many ways.  I learned, forgave and grew spiritually daily from every relationships.  This is was the origin of what I call “inner listening” and have taught to hundreds of willing learners over the last 30 years.

The Origin of emailed Loving Reminders
In the winter of 1998, having just moved back to the Bay Area in California, I asked Spirit within what was my purpose and calling.  I was invited to sit at the computer and write down my daily inner listening and send it to those who requested it of me.  Since Dec, 1998 I have  sat at my keyboard, everyday to write exactly what Spirit within guides.  I do not edit, correct spelling and embellish what I hear.  I simply send what is given to me to share with the now thousands around the world.
This is my inner listening given to all who choose to receive them.  Often it gives people what they need, practical spiritual and inspiring reminders, so they need not spend money on  hours of therapy or endless seeking for spiritual answers.  They seem to awaken and remind individuals who are willing and ready to change their lives for the Good of All.  I also have put many of the reminders into three little books, Loving Reminders, Peaceful Reminders and Relationship Reminders.  There are two other books waiting to be published, Healing and Healthy Reminders.  It is my joy to contribute to the healing and awakening of my spiritual family, all humanity.

May be all be benefited and blessed by every good and kind intention of everyone everywhere.
Blessed be. Betty Lue  “True B’Lue”

Remember: The blessings already are and we are now awakening to enjoy them.