Loving Reminders

Do you know complaining actually increases what you are complaining about?

Do you understand how the mind works and creates its thoughts over and over?

Do you get that forgiveness and affirmation work to undo what you no longer want?

Do you realize that your worries and fears, doubts and tears are just as creative?

It seems our minds think they are here to perceive what is true.

It seems we are taught to believe what we see rather than believe first.

It seems that we concur, justify and explain the “effects”, but rarely look at the cause.

It seems that it is easier to blame and fight external persecution, demons and dragons.

What if we are simply recreating and intensifying the stuff we are trying to end.

What if we really “no not what we do”, in our attempt to go to war with the enemy.

What if when we argue with someone, we are adding fuel to the fire and making it worse.

What if when we seek agreement from an “authority”, we are making sure our assessment is true.

FEAR = False Evidence Appearing Real

What we fear is our own “stinking” and erroneous thinking.

What we must question is the source of our problems.

What we need to forgive and erase is our own erroneous thoughts.

Forgiveness erases the faulty perceptions.

Affirmation clears the mind of limiting beliefs.

When we are stuck in “stinking thinking” and have difficulty finding inner peace, we need to forgive all.

When we are resisting what we fear, we need to assure ourselves with kindness and love.

When we are facing a challenge and cannot find a safe haven, we need to go within.

When we are lost in our own unconscious old beliefs and pictures, we need to replace them with All Good.

Life moves us to clean up what has been swept under the rug.

Love is the answer whatever the question.

Trust will settle every problem now.

Forgiveness is the key to happiness.

And so it is, I practice each day for myself and all of us,

Betty Lue

You are creating each day as you would have it be.

You are creating your perception of everything you see.

You are creating the relationships you have.

You are your creations as your responsibility.

What would it take to understand your inner power.

What would you do if you know your path hour by hour?

How do you be and love and give?

Do you recognize what it takes to do and have and live?

Everything we think creates.

Every word we speak creates.

Everything we do creates.

When we take full responsibility for direction from our Source, we create only what is true.

Wow!  

There is the key….to take responsibility!

When we are able to respond without judgment, we easily change our creations.

When we are willing to respond with gratitude, we can forgive and do them again.

Life works when we change our minds.

Love works when we change our words.

Peace works when we change our activities.

We are happy when we know we are free to change quickly and easily.

Yes! 

In just one moment we can change our perceptions and our projections.

With just one stroke of genius we can do our life all over again.

With our willingness to be free of stuckness, opinions, resentment and guilt, we can change easily.

How awesome to erase what was and make life new again.

How wonderful to forgive and find love within every relationship.

How amazing to stop diagnosing the problem and begin creating solutions.

How powerful to listen within and choose what is good for all hour by hour.

When we live with freedom and responsibility, we see our life is ours to be created as we go.

When we trust in the voice within, we realize and know it is ours to be envisioned and fulfilled.

When we respect and honor ourselves, we live with acceptance for each man’s right to choose.

When we set everyone free to learn in their own way and time, we are truly free to be ourselves.

We have created our lives to learn how to create.

We are living our lives to learn how powerful we are.

We are forgiving ourselves to be free of past errors.

We are remembering the Source and inner resource with each creation.

Loving us all as we create anew.

Betty Lue

“True B’lue”

Enjoy=To fill with Joy.

By Loving.

With forgiveness.

By releasing all that is not Joy.

By blessing what is.

By resting.

By not pushing.

By trusting.

Be enjoying.

By remembering the Good.

By trusting the Desired Outcome.

By knowing everything works together for Good?

By forgiving our judgments and resistance.

By actively looking for what is working.

By just doing what needs to be done.

By taking full response ability.

By remembering to appreciate.

By changing our minds.

By seeking to see and be what we want.

By being open and willing.

By forgiving ourselves and choosing again.

By loving ourselves well?

By trusting in what is best for us.

By visualizing our ideal.

By erasing our fears.

By listening within.

By releasing the past.

By trusting what we know.

By not questioning and second-guessing ourselves.

And so it is…all Good for All of us,

BettyLue

You can learn positive or negative lessons.

You can become and contribute more or contract and give less.

You can believe what others say and do or to look for what is really true for you.

When the teacher is lost, the student can get lost, too.

When the teacher is wrong, the student may learn incorrectly.

When the teacher is unconscious, the student may fall asleep.

It is our responsibility to choose the wisest teachings.

It is our responsibility to learn through trial and error.

It is our responsibility to enlighten those who are sleeping, incorrect and ignorant.

Practice what seems practical to you.

Let go of loyalty to teachings that seem unhealthy, destructive or ineffective for you.

Forgive yourself for following another’s path without honoring your own.

We are here to take full responsibility for our associations, lessons and experiences.

When we know what is right for us, we must claim it until it no longer serves us.

When we choose what is for the Highest Good of all, we need only honor our path for Good.

I prefer to listen within.

I prefer to experience for myself.

I prefer to live only and always with Love.

I prefer to forgive my judgments, opinions, attachments and freely choose what is Best for me.

Life here on this Earthly plane is about lessons that our souls decided that they need to learn - long before we incarnated. If we can look to each emotionally charged event and ask "What is the lesson here for me" then we grow in spirit. If we don't get the lessons, then the emotions and similar events will keep coming to us via universal grace until we do learn them in the way that our soul needs to learn. - Anonymous

Some believe that their mind is already made up.

Our programming or imprinting is in place from our earliest unconscious connections and relationships with parents, birthing doctor, family members and the world.

What you fear will come to you to clear.

What you resist will persist in your thoughts.

What you affirm will confirm that it is so.

When you find yourself thinking negatively, “ I now affirm all Good and only Good is in my mind.”

When you experience what you don’t want, simply erase with “I release all this to the Highest Good.”

When you experience the positives, “ I am grateful for the mind that thinks for Goodness sake.”

When we learn to practice forgiveness. we can heal and clear the past and leave only the gifts.

When we are willing to forgive, we set ourselves to live with gratitude and inner peace.

When we step into a forgiving way of thinking, we open the door to full creative responsibility.

We can always choose again.

We can undo what we do not cling to.

We can change our minds and transform our life.

If you don’t like what you have, choose again now.

If you regret past choices, choose again.  

If you want something different, choose again.

If you are willing to always give and receive the Good, give your mind to All Good.

We are responsible for what we experience.

We are responsible for forgiving or confirming what we experience.

We are responsible for our thoughts, feeling, words and choices.

We are able to respond to all things with Love when we remember to give our minds to Good.

Loving you, 

Betty Lue

Good=God and 

God=Love and 

Negative emotion is your indicator of resistance, while positive emotion is your indicator of allowance. And they are on the same meter: allowance; resistance. Allowance; resistance. 

--- Abraham

            Man is lost and is wandering in a jungle

When you care for yourself, you can happily support others in taking care of themselves.

When you take impeccable care of you, you inspire, and encourage others in caring for themselves.

When you are aware and self-sufficient in caring for you, you feel confident, capable and empowered.

In our family system, we learn you take care of others first and then maybe they will care for you.

In our society, we are taught that it is bad to be “selfish, to listen to outside authorities.

We literally have learned that others no what is best for us and we need to cater to their needs.

How can we recognize the basic needs of our infants and children, while denying or ignoring our own?

How can we claim to know what someone wants, if we do not know what we want?

We are so busy meeting the needs of family, institutions and employers, we have lost ourselves.

Most of us in our sophisticated culture no longer have an awareness of how to sleep naturally.

You may use alcohol, exhaustion, and/or pills to put you to sleep and an alarm and coffee to wake up.

When we know we are hungry, we need to eat.

When we know we are tired, we need to rest.

When we know we need love, we need to love ourselves. 

Animals are self sufficient because they instinctively honor their basic needs.

Children can be self sufficient when parents listen and trust them to honor their needs.

We all can do a better job in listening and loving ourselves well.

***Consider the possibility that when we are hungry, tired or feel neglected, ignored, denied or not heard, we feel unloved and behave with crying, whining, tantrums and emotional upset, sickness, defiance, rebellion, aggression, addiction, self destructive behaviors and other cries for positive attention and loving help. All lack of love is a call for love from ourselves to ourselves.

Loving me and you, 

Betty Lue

Self Awareness is the key.

If you ignore your child’s expressed needs, you diminish his/her self awareness.

If you respond with acceptance of your child’s needs, you increase his/her self sufficiency and growth.

Parents who neglect their needs are inadequate in recognizing and understanding their child’s needs.

When parents are unaware of their own basic needs, they are unaware of their child’s needs.

When parents are responsive to their own needs, they are supporting and respond to their child’s needs.

Do you know when you are hungry?

Do you meet your own hunger needs with full enjoyment and self love?

Do you know when you need rest and/or sleep?

Do you meet your own sleep needs with fully enjoyment and gratitude?

When you know yourself, you become more aware of others as well.

When you trust yourself, you trust others as well.

When you respond to yourself with kindness, you will respond to others with kindness as well.

When you are honestly loving and caring well for yourself, you will be able and willing to love all well.

Where we are in denial, sacrifice, deprivation, we will deny, ignore or deprive others.

It is essential that parents honestly acknowledge and handle their own needs first.

When you are not treating yourself with loving kindness, you are unaware of how to treat others well.

It calls for personal time out (we usually give time out or discipline children) to clarify our unmet needs. 

When an child knows they are hungry, they will eat what satisfies their hunger with enjoyment.

If it is unavailable or denied, they learn to deny their awareness of hunger.

When a child knows they are tired, they will sleep or rest with pleasure.

If quiet time is denies or unavailable to them, they learn to resist or deny their own need to rest.

When we have live with self denial, we develop habits of compensation or simply ignore well-being.

When we deny our basic needs, we learn to cope with acting out, complaining, sickness, addiction, etc.

We forget how to listen within, respect and trust ourselves.

We use external authorities to get advice, help, support, information, opinions and quick fixes.

There is no quick fix to being unaware.

There is no advice from another about what is true for us.

There is no support another can give us, except to  not resist our personal awareness.

There is no information that will give us the understanding to what we resist.

Let the infant tell us what they need with their self expression with body language and vocalization.

Allow the toddlers and preschoolers to clarify their own needs through trial and error. ( yes and no)

Give every child the opportunity to be heard and respond with kindness and respect.

Be aware that when they do not know what they need, because they have been denied or ignored, they will look for compensations or coping skills.

When kids are crying or whining, they do not have the self awareness or words to express what they need.

When adults are upset, angry, complaining, worrying, they do not have the self awareness to know what is needed.

When we have been denied or ignored, given quick solutions or punished, it results in self ignorance.

When we lack self awareness and the ability to satisfy our own needs, we learn temporary compensations.

Parents, listen to yourself and satisfy your own needs without delay.

Parents, step away from the habit of meeting other’s needs before your own.

Get enough sleep every day.( Each individual has their own sleep needs.)

Give yourself the nutrition you need as you need it. ( Rarely does the same schedule work for everyone.)

Parents need to learn to be self aware.

Parents must satisfy their own requirements, before they can respect children’s needs.

This is not about spoiling or selfishness or making anyone more important than another.

This is about learning to be self aware and self sufficient to be a happy, healthy and helpful person.

I care because I want what is good for all of us.

Betty Lue 

Negative emotion is your indicator of resistance, while positive emotion is your indicator of allowance. And they are on the same meter: allowance; resistance. Allowance; resistance. 

--- Abraham