Choose What Is Right For You

FREE YOURSELF.

MAKE YOUR OWN CHOICES.

Affirmations:  Use affirmations to create the right path for yourself.

I am always in the right place at the right time, doing the right thing, for the right reason.

I trust and free myself to choose what is best for me.

I love living with joy in my heart and gratitude in my mind.

The only mistake we ever make is when we forget to LOVE.

Choices

What is right for you?

How do you tell?

Are you making your own decisions?

Who and What is Influencing you?

To decide anything well, you must know yourself.

To choose what is best for you, you must clear the fear.

To be wise in your decisions, you must believe in yourself.

To know what is Good for YOU, you must forgive, trust and freedom yourself.  

Life offers choices in everything.

We can stay or go.

We can be free or stuck.

We can laugh or cry.

We are the ultimate chooser.

Everything we do is a choice.

How and what we eat is a choice.

How we spend our money is a choice.

To work or not is a choice.

To be dependent or independent is a choice.

How and with Whom we spend our time is a choice.

Even not choosing is a choice.

People tend to blame and criticize others for telling them what to choose.

Even this is a choice.

Being thankful or being judgmental is a choice.

Playing victim or sovereign in our own decision-making is a choice.

What causes people to hesitate and procrastinate in making choices?

We think, consider, compare, judge, evaluate and often deceive ourselves.

Rather than trust our natural instincts or intuition, we are afraid to make mistakes.

We have learned to base our choices on what is safe and will not yield disapproval.

When we have freed ourselves and allow our inner voice to lead us, we simply trust.

We trust in what brings us joy and peace.

We trust in what seems right and fair.

We trust in freedom to authentically be.

Life gives us the opportunity with every breath, word and deed to choose our own direction.

When we choose what we have been taught by society, media, teachers and parents, we feel safe.

When we follow the “normal” way of living to get along, we lose our own right to choose our way.

When we free ourselves to be, we learn to trust whatever choices we make and learn from it all.

Loving my life full of freedom and trust,

Betty Lue

Be Inspired

INSPIRE YOURSELF.

BE ALL YOU ARE.

Affirmations:

I affirm my life today.

As I relinquish judgments, I learn and heal and grow.

Forgiveness and letting go offer everything I want.

I am open and willing to allow my life to be a blessing.

Make Time for Inspiration.

When our energy is high, we may feel inspired.

When our energy is low, we may feel depressed.

When we are inspired, we feel happy and content.

When we are depressed, we may feel sad, bored or upset.

How do we use our energies to define our lives?

Do we hang onto what is depressing for us?

Do we decide to make the best of what we have?

Are we open and willing to change what we feel?

When we live in a depressed state, we may have no awareness of what we can do.

When we give up our right and responsibility to choose, we may feel victimized. 

When we assess our current experience without fear or anger, we free ourselves.

When we judge, blame, regret our negative beliefs, we feel stuck with limitation.

We can choose to see what is, and change what we can.

We can choose to see what is, and accept what we cannot change.

We need only honestly and wisely decide what is possible.

And when there is inspiration, we see opportunities where we thought there were none.

Deciding to change our mind can change our attitude.

Forgiving where we are stuck can change our life.

Learning from what we thought was an obstacle can help us grow.

Releasing our false beliefs can set us free.

We are here to grow through everything we experience.

We are called to live life freely and abundantly.

We can learn from everything we experience.

All things are in our best interest, when we see it as so.

Allowing life to be will set us free.

Learning from everything and everyone offers great wisdom.

Releasing our judgments, guilt, blame and fears brings us light.

Changing our focus and direction offers new perspectives and possibilities.

Inspire yourself today by truly understanding the way of life.

Life will work for you, when you work with your life.

Life will seem to fail you, when you fail to understand the value of life.

Blessings come as we bless ourselves and the life we have.

There is so much more than what we see and hear and think.

Be patient, as you ask for inner guidance and seek to be inspired.

Listen deeply to the desires of your heart.

What is of true and lasting value is the healing, growth and wisdom  you seek.

Love is forever.

Betty Lue

You See What You Want

SEEK AND FIND.

YOU SEE WHAT YOU HOLD IN MIND.

Affirmations: (Write and say affirmations to clear your mind.)

I forgive everything and everyone for all time , including myself.

I am willing to relinquish judgment, and heal myself and everyone.

I choose to see the beauty, love, joy and peace in all things.

I trust all things work together for good. 

Clear Your Vision!

We can see clearly, when we relinquish judgment.

Judgment clouds our perceptions.

Negativity blocks our view.

Fear leaves us in darkness.

Our mental/emotional attitude determines what we see and believe.

We may feel down, when we have every reason to feel happy.

When something is “bugging us," we may see things in a negative way.

When we are feeling negative and picky, we cannot see the sun shining behind the clouds,

Time to clear our vision.

Begin to forgive everything and everyone.

Step aside and wash away the critical thoughts.

Be willing to let go and see the bright side.

The negative mind is not real.

We must wash away what seems wrong.

When we want to sing, we must listen for the music.

When we want to play, we must plan to have fun.

Life gives us choices.

We are here to choose what is real and loving and good for us.

To stay in the space of judgment and fear, we leave ourselves in darkness.

To walk into the space of forgiveness and love, we choose to enter delight.

Turn away from what is wrong.

Walk into what is right.

Set aside what is bad.

Choose only what is good for you.

Deny the temptation to wallow in complaining.

Begin to express gratitude for any and all good.

Pray and affirm for the happy side of life.

Focus on what is working and release what is not.

It seems that life is happening to us.

We may find ourselves in what we fear.

We can choose to correct our misperceptions.

Seek only what is conscious and clear.

Dare to see things differently.

Enable your mind to be clear.

Stop holding judgment and fear.

Seek what you value and hold near.

Choose to see what is just right for you.

I do when I am loving me and you.

Betty Lue

Let us forgive mistakes and choose again for a better way!

Are You Loving?

LOVE WITH GRATITUDE!

BE NURTURING AND NOURISHING.

BE RESPECTFUL, HELPFUL AND KIND.

Affirmations:

I love you as I love myself.

As I remember to forgive myself, I am forgiving.

I trust myself to be wholly responsible for my life.

I free myself to love everyone everywhere. 

Are You Loving?

Have you told the ones who taught you, how much you valued them?

Have you shared with those who nurtured you in sickness and health?

Have you honored those who fed you and clothed you and provide a home?

Have you remembered the ones who remembered you in love and care?

Have we learned to say “thank you” in the moment?

Have we taken the time to share the loving stories?

Have we sent prayers of peace and comfort to them?

Have we offered our help in times of need?

May is “Mother’s Month”. 

We are all mothers one to another, when we remember to love.

We are each brothers and sisters in our family of humanity.

We are the ones who give shelters and sustenance, when we care.

We are here to help, guide, teach and serve with the life we live together.

We came into this world with nothing, except our sensitivity and our energy.

We have everything to offer and nothing to lose.

We can feel for one another and care for one another.

From emergence into this world until we complete our time, we can care and share.

Each one of us is worthy of love.

Each one of us is able to be loving.

Each one of us can give to another.

Each one of us can share our love.

Let us begin with the ones who are obvious.

Love and appreciate your elders and teachers.

Love and appreciate your ancestors and your history.

Love and appreciate your learning and teachings.

Love and value the struggles, misunderstanding, worries and fears.

See what more you can learn, when you release your regrets and resistance.

Love and value all the choices and voices, past, present and to come.

Open your mind to see how to learn from the difficult and easy.

Life is Our Mother, when we receive life’s nurturing and nourishment.

Life teaches us what we may not be ready to see and willing to know.

Life can be gentle or tough depending on readiness to awaken and learn.

Life forgives past immature ignorance and offers unlimited opportunities to grow up.

We can nurture and nourish our lives and others as well.

We too can teach others and ourselves with persistence and consistency.

We can awaken our world, as we awaken ourselves to learn from everything and everyone.

We can forgive everything and everyone, including ourselves, so we all can become responsible and independent.

Freedom and trust grow from our willingness to love one another, right now!

I am loving you with all I am,

Betty Lue