Focus

Begin wanting what you want.

Always appreciate yourself for your desires.

YOU CAN, WHEN YOU THINK YOU CAN.

GIVE YOURSELF A POSITIVE MIND.

Affirmations:

I focus on what is Good and Whole and Beautiful.

I fill my mind with what inspires me.

I free myself from negative and limiting thoughts.

I choose to be happy and grateful everyday.

Focus Creates Success.

Where we focus our attention, we experience results.

The key is to focus on success, rather than on avoiding failure.

It seems most people use “trying to achieve”, as their focus. 

Their attention creates lots of trying rather than fulfilling.

When we lack focus, we get wherever our energy flows.

When we have no purpose, life often feels meaningless.

When we are avoiding something, we experience more of what we don’t want.

Literally where we put our attention, we experience more.

“I don’t want” focuses on what we don’t want.

“I try to avoid” focuses on what we are avoiding.

“I don’t care” focuses on not caring.

“It can’t” focuses on more lack and limitation.

It is important to clear the fearful and limiting thinking.

It is essential to imagine the outcome desired.

It is key to let go of holding on to past history of lack.

Minds are conditioned to expect more of the same.

To clear fear of lack and limitation, it is essential to forgive past history.

To believe in the possible, it is our work to trust in what our thoughts can do.

We can, when we believe we can.

We can do, be and have, when we know all things are possible.

Begin to focus on the outcome you prefer.

Imagine how you will feel and what you will do.

Act as if you have achieved, until you become all you desire.

Take time to clear your doubting mind and disappointed emotions.

We are the ones who can undo what is no longer of value.

We can change our mind and our behavior.

We can stop choosing failure, quitting and laziness.

We can do the work to let go of the lack and limitation.

An Attitude of Gratitude is key.

We can be grateful everyday for being able, open and willing.

We can remind ourselves by living and giving our best to ourselves.

We can love ourselves by believing we can be, do and have what we desire.

Be pleased with yourself.

Be grateful for all your learning.

Be kind to yourself for getting happier and wiser daily.

Live your whole life as if you matter most, because you do.

Give your life to being the best in You.

Loving us all as we awaken together.

Betty Lue

“Give yourself to Love.

And Love will give to you.

Live your life with Trust.

And Trust will see you through.”

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Choices

Indecision comes from getting confused about who makes your choices.

Choose what feels right and good for you no matter what!

CHOOSER OR LOSER?

MAKE YOUR OWN CHOICES.

Affirmations:

I listen within and choose the highest Good.

I trust the choices I make.

I free myself to be myself.

I learn from everyone and everything, including myself.

Who Makes Choices for You?

Do you let others tell you what to do?

Do you allow strangers to make you wrong?

Do you sing what is being sung?

Do you do what is popular and go along?

Do you have your own identity?

Do you take steps to set yourself free?

Do you give in and conform?

Do you judge yourself by what others are and do?

Choose for yourself.

Gather information before you decide.

Make your choices with trust and pride.

Be the one you want to be.

Everyone has an opinion.

Everyone has their reasons why.

Everyone has a belief about what is good or bad.

Why not take the time to choose for yourself?

There is no one to blame, when you take full responsibility.

There is only you to trust and choose to be.

You can make up your own mind.

You can live your own life and learn.

It takes a willingness to be true to you.

And when you don’t know what to do, 

Take a risk and try it out.

You will always learn what comes about.

Life is meant to be a solitary journey of exploration and learning.

When we choose to play it safe, we get in the pack and forget the race.

When we choose to play it small, we often don’t have a voice at all.

When we choose to play it big, we choose the music at our own gig.

We seem to think life belongs to the teachers, preachers and others stars.

We seem to give our power to those rich and famous, expert and loud.

We seem to imagine we might get hurt if standing out of the crowd.

We can choose to listen within and take each step with freedom and trust to win.

There are so many choices and so many voices, how can you decide?

Listen within to your own heart and will.

Listen to what moves you with gratitude and joy.

Listen to what empowers and inspires you to keep going.

Choose what works for you.

Choose to follow or to lead.

Choose to play it small or big.

Choose to be happy or live with regret.

The lessons we are here to learn will show up.

If we don’t get them once, they simply come again.

If we listen closely, we get them quickly and easily.

Life gives us a pass and we have fun, safety and ease.

Make your own choices and learn.

Loving the learning, 

Betty Lue

Four Agreements.

Make No Assumptions. 

Keep Your Agreements. 

Take Nothing Personally. 

Always Give Your Best.

By Don Miguel Ruiz

Do what allows you to feel good about You.

Betty Lue · 4.3.26.Choices

Forgive and Choose Again

Free yourself from the unconscious choices you have made.

The more awake you are, the more respectful and responsible you will be.

CHOOSE TO FORGIVE YOURSELF.

SEE AND BE THE GOOD YOU ARE.

"Purposeful Living"

Sunday April 19 at 2PM PDT

All invited. Free Zoom Workshop. 

If you want a Zoom link and/or the recording, please email or text me.

Affirmations:

I forgive myself for any harm I may have caused anyone, anywhere and anytime.

I acknowledge and forgive any place, conscious or unconscious, I have been unloving or unkind.

I relinquish all attack, resentment or limiting beliefs.

I clear any and all unkind thoughts, words and behavior.

Apologies and Amends!

Whatever harm you have done, make amends.

Whatever stories you have told, apologize.

Whatever wrong you have committed, confess your mistakes.

Whatever hurt you have caused, do whatever you can to heal it.

It may never be enough to the ones who were hurt or humiliated, but you can begin to heal yourself.

It may never right the wrong, but you can acknowledge what was your true intention.

It may never clear the guilt and shame, hurt and pain, but you can begin to forgive yourself.

It may never be enough to clean up the loss, separation and upset, but begin to do the work.

Life gives us opportunities to heal and reveal the hidden truth.

Life teaches us lessons of right and wrong, so we can learn to listen to our conscience.

Life shows us what works and doesn’t work, so we can make smart choices.

Life shines a light on what is good for one and all, so we can choose with compassion.

We all can make amends for our ignorance.

We can make apologies for being inconsiderate.

We can stop telling hurtful stories on ourselves and others.

We can give up name-calling, shaming and blaming.

We all can stop the fad of crude language and disrespectful communication.

We can each put at end to negative trends which offend.

We can individually stop hiding from the secrets of our past.

We can become aware, confess, and forgive the foolish errors.

Whenever we feel guilt, we can forgive ourselves.

When we feel resentment, we can forgive ourselves

When we feel hurt, we can forgive ourselves.

When we feel foolish, we can forgive ourselves.

Forgiveness is key to undoing what seemed to be.

Forgiveness erases what was and allows love to flow.

Forgiveness is letting go of the blocks to love’s flow.

Forgiveness gives us the freedom to make things right again.

When will we mend the separation?

When will we stop humiliation?

When will we begin honest conversation?

When will we choose reparation?

There is so much healing we can do.

Let us start with me and you.

Forgiving all errors in my mind, words and behavior—for myself and all humanity.

Forgiveness sets us free to begin again.

Betty Lue

Let us forgive our judgments of mistakes we make and choose again for a better way!

Betty Lue · 4.2.26.Apologies:Amends