What Do You Want?

My choice is to be happy, healthy and free.

What do you want for your life?

CHOOSE WISELY.

LIVE WELL.

Affirmations:

I choose to live the highest values and ethics I know.

I live by the golden rule of treating others as I would like.

I listen to inner guidance for choices and direction.

I love, trust and respect myself in all I say and do.

It’s Your Life.

Where are you going?

If you don’t have a clear goal, how can you achieve?

If you don’t have energy to move anywhere, how can you go?

If you don’t have a vision, mission or purpose, life will take you wherever it goes.

Life is under your direction.

Life is yours to decide where, when, how and with whom you live.

Life is the opportunity to achieve, create, survive or thrive.

Life is an ever-present opportunity to clarify, choose, change, correct and commit.

You choose the outcome you desire.

You choose the where and set your course.

You choose to steer your thoughts, words and actions.

You choose to support yourself every step of the way.

We are in the ocean of life.

If you use your time and mind well, you will know how to reach your destination.

If you expect others to get you where and how you get there, you may take many detours.

If you are adrift in the ocean of life, you may feel lost, afraid and disappointed. 

Involving others in your life journey, you will experience their Karma and yours.

Creating teamwork or partnership without a joined vision, you may find conflict.

Without mutual respect and open communication, you may be confused in direction.

When no one is ready, willing or able to be responsible, there will be major confusion.

Family planning, business plans, and life goals help gather people together to succeed.

Without adequate preparation for the life journey of marriage, it is difficult to cooperate.

With problems, failings, arguments and drama, there will be many bumps and rough sailing.

It is essential that people in families, businesses, politics and life begin to create common vision.

Be clear in your communication about your values, ethics and ideals.

Listen accept and to determine if you are going in the same direction.

If you are a solo traveler, respectfully accept that others may go their own way.

When you honor your own life path, you will navigate easily and smoothly.

Choose the way of loving kindness, respectful communication and conscious choice.

Live by your inner guidance to find the path of the heart.

Give always the very best you have and step away to renew yourself as needed.

Honor the life adventure you choose by correcting your path as needed.

You are responsible for your choices.

You learn everyday from what you experience.

If you want to feel good, choose what is best for you.

In partnership, respect your differences as you choose.

I am loving us all in learning to live our best life daily.

Betty Lue

I am loving us all.  

It is love that prevails in all things, large and small.

Above all, let us simply remember to love. 

Betty Lue

Betty Lue · 9.30.25.Life Choices

Listen With Respect

To really hear, listen beneath the words.

Be a safe place by listening without judgment.

LEARN FROM DIFFERENCES.

LISTEN WITH RESPECT.

Affirmations:

I listen to differences with respect and learn more.

I listen without a need to blame or make others wrong.

I trust everyone has their own perception and opinions.

The more I respect and accept differences, the more I am respected.

Respectful Listening

Listen without interrupting.

Listen without arguing.

Listen with consideration.

Listen without defensiveness.

When we learn to listen to one another with an open mind, we will learn to be kind.

When we learn to see what others see, we will broaden our reality.

When we open to find a way to agree, we begin to feel our unity.

When we stop to consider everyone sees differently, we find respect for humanity.

It is essential to find a different way to communicate.

The word “communicate” is finding the unity within our ways to listen and speak.

We are able to seek agreement within our different perceptions.

We can understand and respect our differences, without blaming or shaming.

Communication in families and friendships is often unconsciously based on what we have learned.

Without changing our negative habits, we are doomed to repeat them.

When we do for others what we want them to do for us, we learn a better way.

When we become conscious in choosing respectful communication, we change fear to love.

All of us have unconscious and limiting habits, excuses and justifications, beliefs and rules.

We have adopted what we say and do from what we learned and used from past encounters.

Parents, authorities, teachers often override children and those with lesser education or experience.

The seemingly powerful often fail to listen and learn from those who seem quiet or inexperienced.

It is essential to harmonize, to heal and grow, to create a better world with harmonious relationships.

We can stop fighting and harmful communication with the simple pattern-interrupt of “time out”.

Take time to take care of yourself, step away and find the calm center within.

Ask yourself to really care enough to listen to what is needed to bring peace.

There is no need to win at another’s expense.

It is not helpful to override the other.

It will not be beneficial to either to build resentment and fear.

It is problematic to continue behaviors which are disrespectful to both.

What is the helpful encouraging way to begin?

Listen first to understand.

Stop making up your mind “to be right.

Let go of the need to win and to fight.

Choose the goal of coming together with kindness and respect.

Seek to bring safety, peace and consideration.

Give to the other the time and space to be heard.

Learn to love one another and give everyone your respect.

This is the way to bring peace to all relationships.

Communicate with respect.

I trust you to respect yourself and others.

Loving you, 

Betty Lue

Be Respectful.

Be Responsible.

Be Cooperative.

Create a Better World for All.

Betty Lue · 9.29.30.Listen with Respect

Value What Is Valuable

Explore your life purpose.

Seek what you value and enjoy.

YOUR LIFE HAS MEANING

VALUE WHAT IS VALUABLE.

Affirmations:

I love my life and my life loves me.

 I choose to treat my whole life with respect and appreciation.

The more I value and appreciate my life, the more meaning I experience.

 I  give meaning and value to everything I think, say and do.

Values Give Meaning

What do you value?

What is important to you?

Where do you contribute?

How do you give?

Purpose gives meaning.

Meaning inspires life.

Life energy feels valuable.

What is valuable sustains us.

And so it is to live with meaning is essential to all life.

Do you live to survive or thrive?

Do you live to defend or feel safe?

Do you live to get by or prosper?

When we know what we value, we can find meaning.

We give everything we do and say the value we give it.

We give meaning to what we value.

When we do not value ourselves and our lives, life is meaningless.

Connect with people who have found meaning in life.

Notice the compassion they have for those around them.

Feel the passion they feel for being helpful and caring.

Be aware of how they spend their time, money and energy.

Take time to clarify what you value.

Pay attention to the people, places and things you value most.

Give more of yourself to what you value.

When you contribute, you find more meaning in life.

Give to your health, if you value health.

Give to your family, if you value family.

Invest in your financial future, if you value abundance.

Give to your environment, if you value the earth and its bounty.

Where you give, you will receive the benefit.

When you give, your life has meaning.

How you give, you feel the passion.

Contribution is how we find and receive meaning.

When life is meaningless, you feel empty, disconnected and alone.

When your life is meaningful, you feel fulfilled, connected and at one.

Bless yourself by contributing to a meaningful and purposeful life.

Value your life and you will know you are valuable.

Valuing you in all you are and do, 

Betty Lue

Betty Lue · 9.28.25.Value Life