Thursday, May 10, 2012

What Heals?

What can you do to be helpful?
What can you do to heal relationships?
What can you do to be healthy?
What can you do to provide healing help for others?

It seems books, conferences, lectures and research are focused on what cures and corrects.
People search for pills, programs, people to help them heal their ills, diseases and disasters.
Humanity spends most money on fixing what is broken, conflicted, violent and sick.
We the people need to learn what we can do to be healthy and whole.

What fractures bones is what breaks relationships.
What hurts families is what damages nations.
What causes heartache is what creates environmental disaster.
What creates violence in individuals is what causes wars.

Perhaps we need to look inside our own heart to find where we are mistaken.
Perhaps we need to be willing to be wrong and learn to apologize.
Perhaps we need to affirm and confirm a better way to believe and perceive.
Perhaps we need to open to undoing what hurts and live with what heals.

Is it possible the answers are far more simple than we are willing to reveal?
Is it possible that we already know what we need to heal in ourselves?
Is it possible that our urgency and lack of inner peace  is the cause of our problems?
Is it possible we need to slow down and surround ourselves with serenity and harmony?

To blame anyone for our pain (physical, emotional, relational, financial and environmental) is mistaken.
To feel guilty about our mistaken choices in words, ideas and activities is futile and disempowering.
To create more excuses and justifications about “Why?” it is the way it is, is endless and foolish.
Perhaps it is simply time to make it simple and keep it simple to simply own full responsibility.


“ I am responsible for everything I see and all that seems to happen to me, because I create with my thoughts and feeling, my words, and my interactions.”

“I can choose to change my thoughts and my feelings.
I can easily change my words and my relationships.
I can be the change in my life and in my world.
I am willing……Are you?”


This a hard pill to swallow for those who want to be right.
This is a huge admission for those who have spent their life blaming.
This is an end to the excuses we use for all the money, time and energy we spend on trying to fix ourselves and others.
This is confusing and scary for those who have assumed no responsibility for the life they have.

I believe we are ready.
I believe we are facing our own existential crisis as a species.
I believe we already know and are afraid of the mess we have made.
I believe we have the power to heal, clean it up and reveal our creative potential.

We are the Ones.
Now is the time.
Loving us all as One,
Betty Lue

Healing Our Projections => Seeing Only Wholeness
1.         We perceive what we believe.
2.         We believe what we think we are.
3.         If I believe I am my past, then I believe you are your past.
4.         Believing in my past is to see it and live it over and over again in all I see and do and am.
5.         Believing in your past is to remember it and lay blame with my judgments of you.
6.         The more I feel guilty about my past, the more I place blame on you.
7.         All anger is but guilt projected onto others.
8.         To forgive my past is to release it.
9.         To release is to see it no more.
10.     As I release (forgive) my past, I release all others from my projected guilt and self-judgment. As I see myself whole, I see wholeness.
11.     As I heal my guilt about past mistakes, I heal my fear of the future.
12.     To be in the present is to heal (erase) the past.
13.     As I live in the present and love myself as I am now, I like you in the present and see you as you are now.
14.     In the presence of this present moment, there is only Love for ourselves, each other and all that is.