Do you feel your love is rejected?
Are you trying to give what you want to receive?
Do you believe love heals and reveals what needs healing?
Can we remember to love children for their innocence, curiosity, adventure and playfulness.?
Will we always love our men for their willingness to protect and provide for their families?
Are women loving themselves for being the nurturers and nourishers for their men and children?
Are we as a society playing the natural roles with love and respect and appreciation for all?
When we love others, are we trying to manipulate or change them?
Have women forgotten or neglected our function of nurturing and nourishing our loved ones?
Is it possible when we lack appreciation for ourselves that we neglect to appreciate others?
Can women return to our primary function of nurturing and nourishing?
If I am playing my part as a women well, will I not see and acknowledge the roles of others?
If I stop trying to change my role or project it onto others, will I not stop trying to change others?
If I remember to nourish and nurture myself well, will I not value the role I naturally play with others?
If I appreciate my willingness to feel others food for body, mind and soul, will I not enjoy my life?
Is it possible that we (women) need to reclaim our most essential and powerful role?
Is it possible that we women can nourish our families with positive affirmations and kindness?
Is it possible that we women can be the flexible conscious and willing ones?
Is it possible that when we stop waiting, complaining and blaming others, we will be the healing agents?
When we quit as nurturers, stopped sharing love, respect and kindness, we gave up our power.
When we quit as nourishers, quit cooking healthy nutritious meals and eating together as a family, we gave up the joy of guiding the inspiration of our family system.
Mothers and Grandmothers, caregivers and servers, have the greatest power of all in nurturing and nourishing, remembering to Love unconditionally, serve from the heart and remember God.
Women need to honor women who nurture and nourish others.
Women who maintain this traditional act of Love, need to appreciate themselves.
Women need to reclaim the right, privilege and honor of nourishing and nurturing others.
When we can value what is our natural function as the Greatest Power, we will respect our men.
When men are respected for provision and protection, we will turn around our society.
When children are valued and enjoyed for their enthusiasm, curiosity and adventure, we will heal. When families return to enjoy one another around the kitchen table, we will laugh and love more.
When we as community remember to appreciate one another for our natural gifts, we will all benefit.
What can you do to love in the truest and most natural way?
Nurture with your words, your touch, your love and comfort.What can you do to touch others powerfully with your Love?
You can listen to the inner needs of your family and give what is really wanted.
Stop trying to do everything.
Stop trying to give what is not essential.
Stop being too busy with covering the potholes.
Pave the road to happiness by doing what is really Love.
I am loving You.
Nurturing with my desire to hug you with my words.
Remind you with my devotion .
Love you with my happy heart.
Betty Lue
And I cook and bake, too! Always with Love or not at all.
¤ I love you ¤
and I know you love me too.
LOVE IS FREEDOM
The freedom for you and I to be who we are.
The freedom to live life as we do.
The freedom to make mistakes and learn from them.
The freedom to express our own truth as we see it.
LOVE IS TRUST
The trust that there is a constant flow of love,
no matter what.
The trust that, in spite of life’s problems,
we believe in and support each other’s right
to live as we choose.
The trust that in adversity,
there is healing and learning and gifts of love.
The trust that under conflict and emotional expression,
there is love
I love you and I trust you.
I free you to be all you are.
and I know you love me too.
LOVE IS FREEDOM
The freedom for you and I to be who we are.
The freedom to live life as we do.
The freedom to make mistakes and learn from them.
The freedom to express our own truth as we see it.
LOVE IS TRUST
The trust that there is a constant flow of love,
no matter what.
The trust that, in spite of life’s problems,
we believe in and support each other’s right
to live as we choose.
The trust that in adversity,
there is healing and learning and gifts of love.
The trust that under conflict and emotional expression,
there is love
I love you and I trust you.
I free you to be all you are.
Betty Lue 1978